Archive for June, 2008

Sticking Around After Mass

theophilus June 20th, 2008

I try to go to Mass on Friday.  It’s something I’ve kept to off and on for the past several years.  With schedules the way they are in suburban churches, it’s kind of difficult to make daily Mass, so I try to make the commitment to Christ that at least once a week I’ll make it.  That day is usually Friday.

My parish only has an 8:30am which just doesn’t jive with my work schedule, so I try to get to 6:30am at St. Susanna or 11:30am at St. Gertrude.  I had a birthday party last night to go to and got in kind of late, so St. Susanna was out for this morning.  I have lunch plans so St. Gertrude was out as well.  I remembered that St. Gabriel has a 7:00am and that seemed a little more managable than 6:30 – so off to St. Gabe’s I went.

Mass was 40 minutes long – and it was worth every minute.  No rushing, no frills, just a good Mass to fill us with the spirit of Christ so we could go forth in the world today to bear fruit.

But the real treat came after Mass.  I decided to stick around to pray and reflect a little.  My Grandma broke her hip yesterday and is having surgery today; and I just wanted to spend a little time with Christ and Mary for her.  But, I was getting a little irritated with some of the elderly ladies who were sticking around, whispering and chatting with each other.  I was able to tune them out somewhat, but not enough.

I decided to pray the Rosary, so I got out my rosary and started to pray.  I had gotten to the second “Hail Mary” when a older gentleman interrupted me to let me know that he and the elderly ladies, who were the source of my irritation, were about to pray the Rosary.  He asked me for my name and wondered whether I would like to join them. 

I went over and had one of those small, sweet moments graced by God.  The gentleman introduced me to the rest of the group and I was welcomed immediately.  We then proceeded to pray one of the most heartfelt group rosaries I have prayed in a long time.  At the end, they added on a series of prayers that just seemed to make the offering complete.

As we concluded, the gentleman (who had led the prayer) turned around and made sure I knew that they were there every morning, same place, same time.  All of the ladies nodded in agreement, as if to make sure I knew they were inviting me as well.  On my way out of church, one of the ladies informed me that the gentleman is a deacon, which I guess put a lot of the previous twenty minutes into context.

Just an overall divine way to start my day.  I even made it into the office at my usual time.  I’m thinking I’m going to make St. Gabe’s part of my Friday plan.

Our Temporal & Divine Daily Bread

theophilus June 19th, 2008

I haven’t seen too much about the Eucharistic Congress going on in Quebec but the following from the Catholic News Service provides some insight into what’s being said (my emphasis added) -

Illinois bishop: Catholics can fight secularization with Eucharist

By Regina Linskey

Catholic News ServiceQUEBEC CITY (CNS) — Catholics who rely on family members and the Eucharist can better resist secularization, Bishop Edward K. Braxton of Belleville, Ill., told pilgrims at the 49th International Eucharistic Congress.Bishop Braxton noted that the family in the Western Hemisphere “has changed dramatically.”Citing statistics that only 25 percent of American families are made up of a mother, father and children, he said changes in the family and decreased attention on the family dinner have made the meal “merely feeding time.”

We are challenged not to imitate secular society,” which can undermine the family and marriage, said the bishop.
The family “relies on the Eucharist” by praying and going to Mass together as well as having a family discussion of the homily, he said.

“There is nothing wrong with telling children” to turn off the computer and TV and “every distraction to pray,” he said.

Bishop Braxton was one of several U.S. prelates who spoke to pilgrims June 16 about what the Eucharist is and how its meaning can be applied and enriched in family and church life.He said renewed faith in the Eucharist is not a quick fix that can be used and manipulated to solve family problems.

“God is not God the way we would be God if we were God,” Bishop Braxton said. Prayers and petitions are an important part of the Catholic faith but “it is important not to have a simplistic view of this,” he said.

God accompanies people through troubled times but does not “remove them from us,” the bishop said.

Catholics can risk thinking that receiving the Eucharist is about “Jesus and me … like a personal Jesus or an insurance policy to heaven,” Bishop Braxton said. But the Eucharist “is a call to each one of us to a conversion as a community,” he said.

Earlier in the day, Archbishop Donald W. Wuerl of Washington said the Eucharist enriches and continues Catholic identity today.

“What we are called to do is remember, remember what Christ accomplished for us,” Archbishop Wuerl told the crowd of thousands gathered in Quebec City’s hockey arena as part of the June 15-22 congress. The Gospel stories are wonderful messages “but nothing has more significance” than Jesus offering himself to the world, he said.

The archbishop, chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Committee on Evangelization and Catechesis, said that at the time of the Last Supper, “an age before technology,” identity and history were passed on through meals as a “perpetual institution.”

But the “new ceremonial setting” of the Eucharist is not just “a memory, not something we reflect on, but a reality,” he said, adding that “Jesus is not a historic figure; the risen Christ is our companion today.”

“The church calls us not just to recall the events of 2,000 years ago but to participate” in the Mass, he said. The Mass is unlike any other historical remembrance, he explained, because “it has the power to make present the reality it symbolizes in the context of the church.”

Cardinal Adam J. Maida of Detroit spoke of the role of the Eucharist in uniting communities.

“Given that the Eucharist is a sacrament of unity and a bond of love,” it unites Christians from diverse backgrounds and invites them to become part of each other’s lives, he said. And through this unity, the Eucharist “illuminates the spirit” of migrants and refugees and highlights “what challenges and gifts they can offer to the church” in their new home, the cardinal said.

Archbishop Wuerl, Cardinal Maida and Bishop Braxton gave their talks on the second day of the congress. The more than 10,000 cardinals, bishops, priests, nuns and laypeople who participated in the international congress attended sessions throughout the day in the hockey arena and other buildings.

This is some pretty good stuff – the power of both our temporal daily bread and our divine daily bread to unite us as families and communities to Christ and to each other. 

Let’s keep this connection in mind next time we sit down to table or approach the altar. 

Let’s keep this connection in mind next time we want to miss Sunday Mass or leave after communion; or allow the TV to pass for family dinner conversation.

And since coincidentally, today’s gospel is the Lord’s Prayer passage from Matthew 6, let’s keep this connection in mind next time we pray the Our Father and come to the part about “give us this day our daily bread.”

We find Christ in the Eucharist; we find Christ in the family; we find Christ in each other.  And Christ IS the best way to fight secularization.  Come to think of it, I would suggest that Christ is the only way.  And waging this fight needs to start at the altar with us receiving the Real Presence entirely into our beings; and at the dinner table with us instructing our children as to who Christ is and what he is about.

Lord, give us this day our daily bread!

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Optional Memorial of St. Romuald, abbot (Italy, c.951-1027) – nobleman who gave up all of his titles and inheritances and founded the Camaldolese monks, a branch of the Benedictines; his order was one of the most strict and required isolation, silence and fasting; he himself did acts of severe penance; one of his pupils was St. Peter Damian, a doctor of the Church; he established many monasteries and hermitages.  

Falling & Staying Away

theophilus June 18th, 2008

I had an interesting conversation with a friend of mine last night.  He lives in a different town so we get together about once a year and talk about once a month. 

He is a cradle Catholic who left the cocoon a long time ago.  I’ve never gotten the feeling that spirituality plays any part in his life.

Last night, we were talking about his recent medical problems, his upcoming fatherhood, and the difficulties with his business; some pretty hefty challenges in his life that he is trying to handle without any divine assistance. 

We then moved onto my life and how hectic it’s been lately.  He queried as to how I ever got some peace and quiet. 

I mentioned that the only solitude I could count on during the day came from the 10 or so minutes I try to spend in church; just me and Christ together in the silence.

And he went “oh” and moved the conversation on.  “OH?”  I wish I could have reached through the phone and smacked him across the head, because he totally missed (or ignored) the bait.  I wish I had the gumption to let him have it – “NUMSKULL, CHRIST WILL HELP YOU DEAL WITH YOUR PROBLEMS – JUST COME BACK AND LET HIM HELP YOU!”

I have another friend.  His business is also having difficulties and his children are a challenge.  I know that these things are weighing on him.  Again, a cradle Catholic who left the cocoon a long time ago.  Again, someone who won’t return and is facing his challenges alone.

I just don’t understand where we as the Church could have gone so wrong that those raised in the faith will not or cannot give the Church another chance, especially when they are trying so hard to face life’s immense difficulties alone.  I am talking about good, decent men here.  Men who I am proud to call friends. 

The thing is, I do drop remarks to them that my faith and my devotion to Christ is what gets me through some of the same type of challenges that they are facing.  But, it’s too no avail.  They just say “oh.”

I wish I could impress upon them that Christ does not leave us alone.  He is always there for us.  But, we must recognize, acknowledge and accept his presence in our lives.  No matter what we are going through, we can turn to him, our Mother, and his saints and angels and they will help us.

We cannot go it alone.  As cradle Catholics, my two friends should know better.  And it’s frustrating to me that I can’t seem to find the way to bring them back.

Tim Russert

theophilus June 17th, 2008

I’ve been thinking about writing about Tim Russert’s death and the role that his faith played in his life and work, but I’ve been putting it off for some reason.  Maybe, it’s just my current jaundiced view of journalists wouldn’t allow my creative juices to get flowing.

But this was a rather remarkable man.  He was a Catholic through and through.  He lived his faith.  He did not check his Catholicism at the newsroom door, nor did he allow his rather lofty station in life preclude him from humbling himself before the Eternal Father and serving Christ and his neighbor.  And as he was also a devoted father and husband, I think he would have fit right in on Catholic Dads.

In any case, I was reading Pro Ecclesia and saw a link to this Newsweek article.  I think it sums up rather well Brother Russert’s life and faith.  May we all be as joyous and committed in showing our love for the Church and living our faith 24/7. 

God and Golf

theophilus June 16th, 2008

I got to watch the 16th, 17th & 18th holes today of the U.S. Open playoff and then the one hole of sudden death.

Come on, let’s admit it.  We all knew that Tiger was going to win it.  We just knew.

But what does Rocco Mediate get out of it?  He played toe-to-toe with the best player to ever play the game of golf; and he did it for 91 holes before he finally blinked one too many times.

God intended for something to come out of this experience for him and/or for Tiger and/or for us.  But what?

I love the game of golf because it’s just me and God out there on the course.  Will he hold my swing together, will he hold my mind together, will he hold my will together?  Every shot is dictated by how well I do at putting together every physical and mental skill that God has given to me.  Doing my best and seeing if it’s good enough to tame the course, to tame myself.

Tonight, Rocco has every reason to believe that he left everything God gave him on the links of Torrey Pines.  He did everything he was supposed to do.  He just got beat by someone who did everything he was supposed to do.

God never guarantees us first place, no matter how closely we follow his will.  What he promises is that he will give us enough to finish the race and that is good enough for him.

And it should be good enough for us. 

The Same Mass

theophilus June 15th, 2008

This morning, we had a visiting priest at Sunday Mass.  He is from Uganda and is here to learn about us and raise some much needed funding for his missions.

And, guess what?  It was the same Mass and he seemed perfectly at home in celebrating it.

The same Mass here as in Uganda, as in Rio, as in Paris, as in Warsaw, as in Vietnam, as in the Philippines.  The same Mass throughout the world.

The Catholic Church is the one place where we are all one people dedicated to a common purpose – glorifying God and accepting his Son into our whole being both physically and spiritually.  And we do this through our coming together to celebrate the Mass and then going out into the world with renewed strength to build Christ’s kingdom.

It really does amaze me, the universality of the Mass.  I’m struck by it every morning when I pray the part of the traditional morning offering that has us offering our day “in union with the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass throughout the world.”  I feel connected to others in a way that I can’t get elsewhere.  I feel whole when I know that, in the Mass, I am offering up one prayer in union with not only the rest of my parish, but with all of the other faithful in my archdiocese, nation, and throughout the world.

It’s just a shame that too many Catholics decided to sleep in this morning or haven’t been to Mass in years.  It’s too bad that they have closed themselves off to a rather remarkable way that God and Christ have chosen to bring us together and make us feel part of a greater whole.

And speaking of feeling part of a greater whole, today is the day we celebrate Dads.  For me, it’s a day to celebrate being a Dad, the single greatest gift that God has bestowed on me.  It’s also a day to celebrate my Dad who took a little orphan boy and made me into who I hope is a good man.  He didn’t have to do it – adopting an older child out of an orphanage – but he took on the Christ-like challenge and made a loving man out of a wounded little boy.  It still amazes me what he did, but he did do it and his and my Mom’s love saved my life.

The Price of Charity

theophilus June 14th, 2008

I gave blood on Thursday night.  I ran a 5K this morning.  Oh my!

I hadn’t given a thought to any connection between giving blood and its effect on me running 3.1 miles in race conditions just 36 hours later.  I hadn’t given a thought until I was in the chair with the tube in my arm pumping out the blood.  I happened to ask the nurse about it and she insisted that I would be fine as long as I kept sufficiently hydrated.  I think I could have drank the office water cooler yesterday and still not have been hydrated enough.

In any case, I had great runs this week and was thinking personal record, especially considering that it was a relatively flat course.  By the 1.5 mile mark, I was suffering.  By 2 miles, I was crashing, fast.  I decided to walk for 30 seconds.  I then kicked it in again, only to have to shut it down yet again.  I walked for another 30 seconds and kicked it in one last time to the finish. 

I then proceeded to the food area and scarfed down anything I could find.  I was finally back to normal about an hour later (or so I hope).

Call it a lesson learned.

The good news is that the race was the Run for the Poor to kick off the local St. Vincent de Paul Society campaign.  The blood I donated will probably go to someone in need of the good stuff.

I guess I didn’t realize that sometimes there can be a physical cost to charity. 

But, believe it or not I had fun.  I thrive on challenges and it was quite a challenge getting my oxygen-deprived, blood-missing body to the finish line.  And, I was a little humbled along the way as that 12-year old blew past me at mile 2.

Now, I’m just hoping that God refills the old blood tank by my next race. 

St. Anthony of Padua

theophilus June 13th, 2008

St. Anthony of Padua (Portugal/Italy, 1195-1231) must have been THE celebrity of his age, even as a Franciscan friar.  He was a well-known preacher who traveled throughout northern Italy and parts of western Europe.  He was appointed as a professor of theology by St. Francis of Assisi.  He was admired by Pope Gregory IX.  When he died, the entire town of Padua, his adopted hometown, turned out to mourn him.  He was declared a saint one-year after his death.  Not bad for a guy who lived all of 36 years. 

And it’s hard to really imagine just how popular he was with the laity.  Take this excerpt from Catholic Culture and The One Year Book of Saints by Rev. Clifford Stevens -

“St. Anthony of Padua was such a forceful preacher that shops closed when he came to town, and people stayed all night in church to be present for his sermons.”

Imagine, people taking off of work for something other than a ballgame; people staying up all night (in church nonetheless) to see someone other than Hannah Montana or something other than the newest video game or telecom gadget. 

Today, St. Anthony is still very popular and prayed to by the young and old – “St. Anthony, St. Anthony, please come down.  Something is lost and can’t be found.”  I almost feel embarrassed at how frequently St. Anthony has to spend some time at our house.

There is also the typical image of him – he conversing with the child Jesus.  It was said that someone looked through the window where St. Anthony was staying and saw the two having a little chat.  And, I bet that St. Anthony’s piety was such a given that the person looking in the window didn’t think twice about what he was seeing, and others didn’t think it unusual when told about it.

St. Anthony was just one of those special guys.  He knew what God wanted from him and he did it to perfection.  His life was spent in fulfilling his passion for Christ and leading others to live that same passion.  In his life, he was recognized far and wide; in death, to this day, he is looked upon with a fondness that somehow transcends ages.  And the Church extols him in a special place among the Canon of Saints by calling him a Doctor of the Church (named by Pope Pius XII in 1946).

Now, if only I could remember where I put my car keys? 

Giving Thanks

theophilus June 12th, 2008

Prayer can too often take the form of complaining and whining.  I know that I spend a good deal of time telling God about all of the things I think are wrong in my life or things I think need to be changed.  While I know he wants to hear about my fears, anxieties, needs, and wants, I know he also wants me to tell him about all of the good things in my life; the things he has given me to bless me and make my journey worthwhile.

I guess I was thinking about my gratitude, or lack thereof, this morning when I came across this passage from Isaiah 12 -

“Give thanks to the Lord, acclaim his name; among the nations make known his deeds, proclaim how exalted is his name.  Sing praise to the Lord for his glorious achievement; let this be known throughout all the earth.  Shout with exultation, O city of Zion, for great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel!”

And as I read this passage, I recalled that just in the past twenty-four hours, a great deal of good has happened to me; all small things, but all good. 

I was re-elected as an officer for my local Knights of Columbus council last night; I came home and heard my son reading a book for the first time; my daughter is asking for workbooks so she can continue learning in the summer; I didn’t take advantage of the free Reds ticket I had for last night’s game (a 10-0 loss to the Cardinals); the weather the past two days has been picture perfect; I had a great run this morning; a potentially troublesome project wrapped up at work without incident; the list could go on.

Again, all small things, but all good.  And I’ve said a prayer of thanks to God for these small blessings.  In fact, I think I’ll declare today to be a no-whine day.

I’m just going to make today a day to ”sing praise to the Lord for his glorious achievement.” 

St. Barnabas

theophilus June 11th, 2008

He is the man who helped bring St. Paul to fulfill his life mission – St. Barnabas.  It’s interesting that he is numbered as one of the apostles, even though he wasn’t one of the original twelve and wasn’t added officially to the ranks to take one’s place, like St. Matthias.  But, St. Barnabas and St. Paul were so good at what they did and so in tune with their apostolic mission that their peers could pay them no higher honor than to call them an “apostle.”

Today, the Church commemorates the life of St. Barnabas.  All we know of his life is taken from the Acts and the Pauline Epistles.  We know that he brought Saul (later to be called Paul) from Tarsus to Antioch, which was then a center of the Christian faith and where Christians were first called such.  We know he was a “good man, filled with the Holy Spirit and faith.” (Acts 11).  We know he and St. Paul went on to set the standard for all missionaries to come.

It was also probably St. Barnabas who had long talks with St. Paul and helped Paul reconcile his strong Jewish faith with the mystery of the crucified and resurrected Christ.  It was probably St. Barnabas who helped convince St. Paul that Christ had come to fulfill the law instead of to replace it as discussed by Christ in today’s Gospel (Matthew 5) – that St. Paul’s zealous beliefs were not inconsistent with Christ’s messianic kingdom.

So, how does St. Barnabas relate to our lives?  To answer this question, we need to ask ourselves – are we the St. Barnabas in anyone’s life?  Is there a St. Barnabas in our life?  Someone who we are supposed to bring closer to Christ or someone who is supposed to bring us closer to Christ?

Today’s Alleluia acclamation is from Psalm 25 – “Teach me your paths, my God, and guide me in your truth.”  Part of today’s Opening Prayer is “help us to proclaim the gospel by word and deed.”    St. Barnabas lived these words; we should do so as well.  Christ may be calling us to be a St. Barnabas or to accept a St. Barnabas in our own life.  Like St. Barnabas and St. Paul, we better recognize and accept this calling.

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